Hello and welcome!  My name is Melissa.  I want to start by thanking you for visiting my site, and for joining me on the arduous journey of reclaiming and re-transforming my life.

I thought that I had found the man of my dreams.  He was literally everything that I had envisioned my husband would be. What I did not envision, was that this man, my “perfect” man, would walk away.  However, foreknowledge is not my forte, and the impact of his choices have left me devastated.

So here I am, emptying my sentiments of grief and my reflections of circumstance into words, with the aspiration of healing. If you are in or have gone through, an analogous situation, then I hope that my words will reveal that you are not alone and that together we can overcome our current circumstances. Collectively, we can work towards decanting the resentment and exasperation, while continuing to show stability to those who depend on us. Together, we can bounce back.

James 1:2-4. “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”